When Yasmin told me she was going to get married my squeal was enough to summon the local hounds. When she asked me if I would make dresses for her bridesmaids, I squeaked a more fearful ‘yes’… Silk, tafetta, yards of it. Pale expensive fabrics poofed up all over my… kitchen table? Not to mention the pressure of producing something nothing less than perfect for such an important occasion for such a special couple! My head was racing with all the awful possibilities…’Of course, I’d be delighted and honoured,’ surfed my quivered reply on the outbreath.
I’d been dreading the day someone asked me to make a bridesmaid dress. Not quite as much as being asked to make a wedding dress. But still, nothing more than fear of not being able to come up with the nothing-more-than-perfect goods. Nothing more than I deal with every day as a designer tbh. Isn’t self-doubt a wonderful thing?!
Cut to a coffee date and handover of a bag load of the prettiest Liberty Tana Lawn, Betsy D fabric in turquoise. I should have known better. No prom-girl-meets-fancy-princess dresses on the guestlist here. Instead three classic pretty little girl dresses were the order of the day. Something the girls could run around and happily play in and wear again afterwards.
I was so impressed with Yasmin’s vision, not to mention her wedding dress find at a vintage wedding fair. A gorgeous original 1940’s number with very little alteration needed. And the deco details she found on Ebay re the Jenny Packham hair accessory and the dress clips. Who knew about dress clips? Such a beautiful thing. Just. So. Yas!
So of course the bridesmaid dresses needed to be simple, floaty, proper little girl dresses with a polite nod to vintage. And before I got pen to paper, Yas had it in the bag and downloaded the patterns already: These pretty angel sleeve dresses from an indie seller on Etsy – Aesthetic Nest. Quite the perfect stage for Betsy D!
The ages of the girls were 7, 8 and 10. Having had two girls of my own I felt the need to raise a possible issue about potential tantrums should there be any objection to such prettiness. The last thing you want on your big day is a scowling child, head sucked into shoulders, begrudgingly following you up the aisle, curled toes gouging tram tracks in the parquet en route.
So, on consultation, the 10 year old unsurprisingly wanted something a bit cooler! But that was fine because the the alternative was gorgeous too. A little halter dress from Simplicity 8064, with peter pan collar and bow.
I didn’t get to meet the girls, and it was logistically impossible for the older one given she lives in the US but by the power of technology and good old Royal Mail we managed a virtual overseas fitting which thankfully only threw up the need to take some excess out of the back.
The style of the Angel sleeve dresses meant no real fitting dramas at all, save the length. Incidentally this pattern comes up really long and would have swamped the little ones. I sent a toile by post and it was returned with a safety pinned hem of 5 or more inches!
So when all alterations were factored in, I made the dress version of the angel sleeve dress for one of the girls and the top and skirt version for the other. So happy that they chose a slight difference in style. We couldn’t help but be persuaded by the addition of some pink pom pom trim found in the Goldhawk Road.
There was just enough to add to the ends of a blindfold for Piñata fun and games too!
The halter dress commanded no such pompom fun but instead a carefully selected vintage button and some coral pink cotton trim to frame the Liberty print so perfectly.
But I’m assured there was no lack of fun to be had whilst wearing it!
Oh the pride when Yas sent me the photos. It’s so good to look back on something with fresh eyes. I so admire her determination not to have felt the need to comply with convention – the word in itself is so boring and automated – and instead, that every little personally sourced, perfectly chosen, and lovingly stitched item added all the more personality and meaning to her very special day.
I am so chuffed to have been asked to make these dresses and even moreso to have kicked self-doubt into touch!
13 Replies to “Liberty dresses and a little self doubt”
You should feel very proud of yourself – the girls looks like Liberty covered angels!
Thank you Jen. And don’t they just! x
Beautifully made, thank you so much! Sofia loves wearing hers again and again. Don’t listen to the doubt again – you have a wonderful gift!
Thank you so much Lisa. That’s so good to hear. I don’t have a problem with my own expectations, just fulfilling the unknown of others! Yasmin was of course a dream person to work with! x
Lovely! It’s so nice that they are dresses that can be worn again too.
Thank you Catherine. I totally agree x
I’d have had the same sinking feeling as you no doubt did when asked – I’d have immediately seen myself struggling with yards of nasty slippery satin and maybe even net – and I can only imagine the joy when you saw the Liberty print!
The dresses are lovely, and it looks like a beautiful, natural wedding, so pretty.
Thanks Gill. I just know I’m going to have to deal with it at some point. Most likely my own daughter’s wedding, lol! x
Very cute! The pink trim makes all the difference, don’t you think?
Thanks Anne. It really does!
Such beautiful dresses and a gorgeous bride. You should be proud of the dresses. They are beautiful.
Thanks Evie x
Oh my!! So much fun. The dresses, the photos, I’m sure the wedding AND your writing! I always enjoy your posts, Janine.